Columns/Opinions

As Long as You Resist

There is a particular kind of exhaustion that comes not from doing too much, but from fighting too hard.  Fighting circumstances. Fighting feelings. Fighting the version of life that showed up instead of the one we ordered.  We grip the plan. We brace against the outcome.

PSA: Saving for retirement: Are you guessing or planning?

How much do you need to save for retirement?    Rather than picking a number out of thin air, $1 million, for example, find a number that will actually support the lifestyle you envision.    Begin by imagining your daily routine: Where are you living?   Are you still in your current home?

The Next Chapter

There comes a moment in every woman’s life when she looks up from the beautiful, exhausting, purpose-filled work of raising her people and realizes — they are gone.  Not lost. Launched.  My husband and my eldest son are crafting stories frame by frame as a film editor.